Should I reach out first?
The real question hiding here is usually what reaching out would cost you, and whether the silence means what you have decided it means.
Five cards, because this one ends in an action either way — and the reading should tell you which one.
We'll read this as: What would reaching out change between us?
Cards that often come up
Two of Swords
A stalemate that only exists while both of you hold still.
The Star
Openness rewarded — but it has to go first.
Six of Swords
The move toward calmer water, taken rather than waited for.