Five of Wands · V
✦Everyone is pushing their own idea and nobody is really listening.
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It's noisy and draining, but it's a scuffle, not a war: the stakes are egos and preferences more than survival. Handled well, this kind of friction sharpens everyone involved.
Decide whether this is a contest to win or a problem to solve together, and say which one out loud. Then agree on a simple way to take turns.
Treating every disagreement as a fight you have to win, until you're swinging at people on your own side.